The Kinder, Gentler Way of Getting Divorced: Have You Considered Mediation?

Divorce often sends both parties running for the nearest and most aggressive lawyer. A sense of self-preservation kicks in and thoughts turn to who gets what and why. In addition to financial strain, taking a “kill or be killed” attitude toward the divorce process can be emotionally devastating for all parties involved – especially children.

Further, a traditional divorce trial is a lengthy process. If you are looking to move on with your life sooner rather than later, you and your spouse may want to consider the process of mediation. Mediation can be an ideal way to settle divorce for a number of reasons:

A More Cost-Effective Solution
Mediation usually allows you to settle your divorce through a series of meetings with one professional. This professional is committed to helping you and your spouse reach a fair and equitable agreement. While it is still necessary to have quality legal representation, you can cut down on court costs and filing fees by expediting the process. The longer the divorce drags on, the more financially difficult it will be for all parties involved.

Minimal Impact on Children
Custody battles can have a devastating impact on children of divorce. Mediation can take this process out of the equation which means you can protect your children from the pain of hearing their parents disparaging each other in court. A mediator can help you quickly resolve custody issues in a manner that keeps the best interest of the child in mind.

More Control over the Outcome
Mediation allows you to focus on the specific areas of your divorce that need prompt resolution. It also allows you to take a more active role in the decision-making process so you and your ex-spouse can reach a mutually satisfactory agreement.

Contact Davis and Mendelson to learn more about the benefits of mediation in divorce.