Author Archives for Howard Mendelson

TIPS FOR SUCCESSFUL NEGOTIATION aka “Give Peace a Chance!”

May 12, 2020 9:43 am Published by Comments Off on TIPS FOR SUCCESSFUL NEGOTIATION aka “Give Peace a Chance!”

by Howard S. Mendelson, Esq. IMAGINE, if all attorneys were cost-effective problem-solving peacemakers…if all attorneys recognized that, but for the minority of cases which are sadly driven by egos and positions rather than rational problem-solving founded upon mutual goals and acquired trust, the vast majority of the cases we’re asked to handle call upon us to utilize our skills as […]


Virtual Domestic Violence

May 5, 2020 2:00 pm Published by Comments Off on Virtual Domestic Violence

Our New Jersey Appellate Division has just ruled that a “virtual texting/sexting relationship” between consenting adults can arise to a “dating relationship” as that term is defined under our New Jersey Domestic Violence Act; thus entitling the recipient of purely virtual communications the opportunity of securing a Final Restraining Order where no physical “dating relationship” ever existed. https://gardenstatecle.com/lawtube/pdf/CCvJAH.pdf


School’s Out: Special Education During COVID-19

May 4, 2020 12:59 pm Published by Comments Off on School’s Out: Special Education During COVID-19

“Compensatory Education” and “Extended School Years” will be the “new normal” for many special needs children as we hopefully evolve back toward fully and effectively implemented Individualized Educational Programs (“IEP’s”) in accordance with the requirements of the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (“IDEA”). Please call us at (856) 627-0100 or email us at hmendelson@davismendelson.com to schedule a free initial telephone […]


Support Modifications and the COVID-19 crisis

April 29, 2020 2:45 pm Published by Comments Off on Support Modifications and the COVID-19 crisis

“Life is change” and when previously agreed-upon support was based upon earned income and/or passive income that has significantly decreased and/or been eliminated by our “new normal”, you should call an experienced matrimonial law firm to address consensual modification agreements, mediation and/or, when necessary, an appropriate motion to the Court. Please call us at (856) 627-0100 and/or email us at […]


Coffee With Joe

April 24, 2020 9:27 am Published by Comments Off on Coffee With Joe

DO IT FOR THE KIDS! MEDIATE DON’T LITIGATE! https://drive.google.com/file/d/18f4GOxhsdvdMaOlX5tzSYiM5jKmcPSc8/view?fbclid=IwAR1blb5TEtHZ_yooFsw7qRrV1vqWU4i0AZXNLjxQ3gX7Of-GNEtaMVJe_rs


COVID-19

April 24, 2020 9:19 am Published by Comments Off on COVID-19

A message from the office ofDavis & Mendelson L.L.C. on COVID-19 At this historic time, the safety of our clients, our office team, and our colleagues remain our top priority. Davis & Mendelson also recognizes the anxieties and potential legal issues that this “new normal” presents. We recognize that, now more than ever, our clients need us; we will accordingly […]


Can I Get Alimony in My New Jersey Divorce?

December 16, 2019 11:45 am Published by Comments Off on Can I Get Alimony in My New Jersey Divorce?

Overview: Alimony Many spouses wonder how they will divide their assets if and when they divorce. There are many assets to consider including real estate property, savings accounts, and even child custody. Alimony is also a question as spouses wonder if the life sacrifices they made will be compensated when they are no longer with their significant other. What is […]


What Happens if my Spouse and I Don’t Agree on Decisions about Our Real Estate during Divorce?

November 22, 2019 9:37 am Published by Comments Off on What Happens if my Spouse and I Don’t Agree on Decisions about Our Real Estate during Divorce?

Dividing Real Estate When you’re married for many years, the lines become blurred as to who owns what. Every item and asset purchased becomes joint property of both you and your spouse. While some things may be easy to divide, other things, like real estate property, can be more difficult to establish ownership. The process of dividing real estate can […]


How to Enforce Court Orders in Divorce

November 11, 2019 9:37 am Published by Comments Off on How to Enforce Court Orders in Divorce

Overview: Divorce and Court Orders Divorce cases can get very messy with each spouse fighting over their shared assets together. Most divorce disagreements are solved in court. However, even when the judge has ordered one or both spouses to do something, one partner might refuse to carry out the ordered actions. Fortunately, there are ways to enforce court orders when […]


Top Tips for Managing Your Expectations During a Divorce in New Jersey

October 24, 2019 11:25 am Published by Comments Off on Top Tips for Managing Your Expectations During a Divorce in New Jersey

Filing for Divorce in New Jersey When couples go through a divorce, they tend to want to the process to be over and done with as fast as possible. And, when it comes to dividing the marital assets and settling ancillary issues to divorces like setting child custody schedules and determining alimony and child support amounts, both of the soon […]