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NJ Court Addresses Rights of Students and Parents vs. Local School District

June 26, 2018 2:07 pm Published by Comments Off on NJ Court Addresses Rights of Students and Parents vs. Local School District

The United States District Court for the District of New Jersey recently addressed an interesting legal issue involving the rights of students and/or their parents to advocate and/or protest against their local school district. While both our New Jersey Constitution and United States Constitution guarantee every citizen, including every student, parent and/or their legal guardian of said student the right […]


The Surprising Reason You May be More Likely to Get a Divorce

June 21, 2018 6:00 am Published by Comments Off on The Surprising Reason You May be More Likely to Get a Divorce

No one ever enters into a marriage thinking that it will end up in a divorce. While the idea that 50 percent of marriages end in divorce is no longer a true one, there are a number of factors that have been proven to be significant reasons on why couples no longer wish to be together. Obviously, situations that involve […]


New Jersey Superior Court Addresses Issues of Access to School Records

June 18, 2018 10:42 am Published by Comments Off on New Jersey Superior Court Addresses Issues of Access to School Records

The Appellate Division of the Superior Court of New Jersey has recently addressed issues of and concerning access to school records under the Open Public Records Act (OPRA), the New Jersey Pupil Records Act (NJPRA), and the Federal Family Educational Rights and Privacy Act of 1974 (FERPA.) Prior lawsuits involving access to student records and resulting confidentiality concerns had resulted […]


The Four Types of Separation

May 24, 2018 5:00 am Published by Comments Off on The Four Types of Separation

The term separation encompasses several different legal categories that each have their differences. States maintain their own unique rules for the four types of separation, so it’s important to understand what legal category you fall into because it can affect your property rights. Legal Separation in New Jersey A couple that decides to live separately for a short period before […]


Health Care Concerns in Late-Life Divorce

May 14, 2018 5:00 am Published by Comments Off on Health Care Concerns in Late-Life Divorce

Aging presents unique problems for individuals seeking a divorce later on in their lives. As our bodies get older, our health care becomes increasingly important. Routine well-checks and physicals may prevent serious and debilitating diseases, or they can catch life-threatening conditions early enough to correct them. Aging may have already resulted in unique health concerns for you, so maintaining your […]


Conflict Resolution: Ten Reasons People Don’t listen to One Another; “Hearing the Other Person’s Truth”

May 7, 2018 5:27 pm Published by Comments Off on Conflict Resolution: Ten Reasons People Don’t listen to One Another; “Hearing the Other Person’s Truth”

A person’s “subjective truth” coupled with an inability to actively listen can create barriers to effectively communicating and, as such, can hinder a resolution that could otherwise be reached by and between the parties. Fighting to get someone to agree with “your truth” without trying to hear “the other person’s truth” never really works. David d. Burns, M.D. addressed attitudes […]


Conflict Resolution: 10 Obstacles to People Expressing Their True Feelings in the Context of Mediation

April 17, 2018 1:43 pm Published by Comments Off on Conflict Resolution: 10 Obstacles to People Expressing Their True Feelings in the Context of Mediation

When it comes to communication in the context of Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR); whether by mediation or otherwise, there is a difference between good communication and bad communication. In a legal dispute, one party’s belief that they are right can lead to a vicious cycle of continued dispute, causing anger and frustration instead of the desired resolution. In this way, […]


Tips for Refinancing During a Divorce

April 12, 2018 2:58 pm Published by Comments Off on Tips for Refinancing During a Divorce

It may be necessary to consider the process of refinancing during a divorce because this could be the only way to keep the family home. In these situations, it’s important to be mindful of the details and to avoid many common mistakes. Refinances involve borrowers getting a new mortgage loan used to pay off the previous one. Refinances are usually […]


Harassment, Intimidation and Bullying in New Jersey Public Schools

March 29, 2018 2:02 pm Published by Comments Off on Harassment, Intimidation and Bullying in New Jersey Public Schools

New Jersey has some of the best schools in the country. According to U.S. News and World Report, New Jersey ranks second in the USA for education on all levels. It is also one of the most progressive states when it comes to granting and implementing equal rights to New Jersey students. Safeguards against harassment, intimidation, and bullying are at […]


Jose Reyes Continues Child Support Battle with Mother of Secret Daughter

March 28, 2018 5:00 am Published by Comments Off on Jose Reyes Continues Child Support Battle with Mother of Secret Daughter

New York Mets baseball player Jose Reyes has been sued for child support by the mother of his secret eight-year-old daughter. The mother, who has made claims that Reyes is a “terrible father” who abandoned their daughter, had the child shortly after her and Reyes ended their relationship. At the latest child support hearing, the mother became emotional and reportedly […]